Be true to you. Ask what do I want? Lean in the direction that feels good to you. Stop the outside chatter that does not fit the dynamics of your experience. You are aleady everything...I'll explain that when you understand I don't need to.
Just when you think all else about anything is, be true to you; first; always. When all else around you appears not quite right resolve first statement: Be true to YOU always. Don't ever tell you no based on outside influences.