If you set conditions for your life you'll have to meet them. Giving yourself the necessary doldrums to do just that remain in the doldrums. Its pass time for change in the form of development along with expanded self awareness. Its time to make your own news, blow your horn and captain your own vessel. If you make no plans you set no conditions and you can go with the flow and everything you want is in the flow. You won't meet-up with the torrents and eddy's that come from your observing and thinking about what it is you do not want that may very well seem to surround you but if you "BREATHE!" and reconnect through that breathe with yourself; you'll feel your source; your own SOUL enjoying the ride without your physical presence enjoying it.